You determine the flow with which you go by your breath flow.
Are you giving as much as you’re receiving? Are you receiving as much as you’re giving? If not, you forgot the flow. Re-realize the flow via the breath to remember that you’re going with it regardless of what you do.
Saying you’re “just going with the flow” to avoid response-ability and accountability for yourself is just making excuses for your apathy.
Making shit happen for yourself despite challenges and obstacles is still going with the flow.
Loving yourself enough to give without needing to receive is going with the flow.
All of your yangs will inevitably yin; it is the one universal law. All that gives must receive in equal part.
TRUST THE BALANCE.
Free yourself from your expectations and know that you will receive for all that you give.
The world is perfect and all things are in perfect balance.